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6 Myths That Can Prevent You From Finding Love
There’s little doubt that finding the love of your life would be a wonderful thing. Those seeking love often sabotage their efforts by believing several, common myths. It’s much more challenging to find true love if your beliefs are inaccurate. Examine these myths and see how many you currently believe.
Clear your thinking by examining these common love myths:
1. Your perfect partner will find you. There’s no evidence to suggest that fate plays a role in finding your ideal mate. The more responsibility you take for your life, the more likely you are to find a successful match.
Keep your eyes open and be prepared to act when the right opportunity comes along.
Who do you think will have more success: the person that goes out with a few new people each month that meet his criteria? Or the person that stays home on the couch and declares that he’ll leave his love life in the hands of fate?
2. Playing hard to get is the way to a man or woman’s heart. Those that like to play games or have a lot of self-confidence can enjoy the chase, but most of us are attracted to those who show a genuine interest.
That doesn’t mean professing your love after the second date. Waiting a week to return a phone call will leave the other person assuming you don’t…