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A Singles Guide To Dating After A Long Break

3 min readJul 8, 2021
Photo by Matt Moloney on Unsplash.

If you haven’t dated in a long time, getting back into circulation can seem overwhelming. Maybe you’ve been in a long-term relationship that recently ended or you’ve been single and busy with other priorities. Either way, you’re bound to wonder if things have changed while you’ve been away and whether you’ll be able to adapt.

Like most obstacles to romance, feeling a bit rusty can be overcome if you’re willing to make an effort.

Try these tips for reviving your love life.

Things to Do Before You Start Dating:

  1. Consider your priorities. As long as your expectations are constructive and realistic, it’s beneficial to have a checklist for the qualities you’re looking for in someone to date. Focus on the traits that matter, like kindness and integrity. Remember that money or good looks may not last or guarantee happiness.
  2. Drop the baggage. Let go of your past. Setting aside resentments and disappointments will allow you to move on.
  3. Get a makeover. Maybe you’re happy with your appearance or maybe you’re concerned that you’ve been neglecting your grooming a little. While inner beauty matters most, a flattering haircut or new eyeglass frames could boost your confidence.
  4. Tell your friends. Let your friends know that you’re…

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Sara Knick
Sara Knick

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