Answering The BIG Question: Is This A Relationship Where You Can Commit And Find True Love?

I recently wrote a blog post on February 13th called, “How To Spend A Day With Your Dating Partner: A Practical Application.” In this blog post, I talked about what to do if you need help figuring out if you would like to deepen your relationship and have a more serious commitment. It may not go very well the first time or the first couple of times, but hear me out!

If you try to spend normal time with your partner and you both hate it, don’t give up. When you’re used to doing more exciting things together, spending time doing normal things can feel like a letdown.

Instead of walking away from this sort of interaction or, even worse, from the whole relationship, commit to trying it a few times. You may include different activities or you might even ask your partner to contribute some ideas as to how you can make those tasks a little quicker or more fun. You’ll both be able to look at a mundane activity in a new light this way.

You should give yourself at least three or four chances to interact like this before you give up on it.