Are You Jealous Of Someone’s Relationship?
When we are young, we get told many stories of life lessons and how we can overcome obstacles. Some of the stories involve a prince and a princess that lived happily ever after. We get programmed to think that everything turns out the way that we had hoped. When we can’t create our own fantasy relationship in our lives, what are we to do?
People want the best outcomes for themselves in love, but sometimes life gets in the way or unexpected outcomes to situations keep popping up making us feel like we are further than where we would like to be. We may continually get down on ourselves for past mistakes and think that a worthwhile relationship is out of reach leaving us hurt, angry and jealous.
Being in the space of hurt, anger or jealousy, it makes it difficult for us to master our own relationship. Whether we are still looking to acquire a relationship or if we want to improve a current relationship, being in this type of energy stops us from improving.
We should never compare ourselves with our partner. We should never compare our relationship to another relationship. There should be no comparing in love.
First, we should learn to master our identity and who we are. Then, after we have mastered our identity, we should match the energy of our identity to a potential partner. The answers are within. When we look at the exteriors of people and the relationships that are around us, we can never be quite sure of what they are experiencing internally.
You never know what it is like in a certain relationship unless you are in it. When you start wishing that you were someone else or hoping for a relationship just like a friend that you know, it is a sign that you feel out of control of your own life and that you feel undeserving. You feel that you cannot have it.
The human experience varies from person to person. Our emotions can be intensified depending on our stresses and responsibilities. We may be able to be calm on the outside, but be frazzled internally about situations that are going on. We may never know what a person is facing unless he or she reveals it to us. It is important to be understanding.
What we have, we earned. You may never know the sacrifices that were made to achieve or attain something. In love and relationships, you may never know the whole story or the struggles that were faced and then overcame. Sometimes people judge appearances too quickly without any basis of understanding for the people involved. You can create your own love story and have it be as unique as you want it to be.
