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Dating Dilemma: Dealing With “Thirsty” Men & Women

4 min readJun 30, 2021
Photo by Taylor Harding on Unsplash.

When you’re thirsty, you need something to drink, but that’s not what we are going to be talking about here. Here we are going to be referring to men and women in the dating world who are “thirsty” for particular men and women. I’ve had many “thirsty” men approach me in the past and send me online messages. Here’s the deal with understanding the “thirst” in the dating world: they want so much what they feel that they can’t have and it comes off as extremely desperate.

Men and women naturally want to find others that possess qualities that they deem attractive or desirable, but when they strongly approach those in the dating world without learning much about them trying to sweet talk them or hit on them, it leaves the ones being pursued questioning what their motives are. Most of the time those that are “thirsty“ haven’t discovered their own power and seek to fill a void of loneliness because they don’t feel comfortable filling it themselves first so they seek to fill it with someone else who is attractive. They will sometimes use any means possible that is available to them to secure such a person in their lives. It depends on how “thirsty” they are. They may offer money or other goods just to be in the presence of the desired one.

Being an attractive person, you will come across many “thirsty” folks out in public and online. It can…

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Sara Knick
Sara Knick

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