Dear Men, Show Us Your Heart Instead Of Your “Junk”

The landscape of the dating world has changed over the years. There’s a lot of unsolicited naked pictures getting sent to women in the form of genitals and penises without them even getting asked for. Men feel more comfortable putting themselves out there in the online space because they are already distanced from the anonymous person that they are talking to in most cases. I commend those apps and dating websites putting in stricter guidelines to protect those that aren’t purely looking for sex or “a good time,” but that actually want a good relationship built on values.

Women want real connection, but some men like to be evasive or reject any heartfelt or emotional conversations. When women do not feel a connection to a man, she will not be receptive to any further requests or ideas that the man may have.

When a man continues to a pursue a woman that is already turned off, he will either be met with silence or resistance. Further pursuit of the woman in terms of sending naked photos, requests for sex or making any sort of sexual references will not be taken well and the man will most likely lose this woman for good.

Even though a man may be turned on, the woman may not be. Any sexual communication towards the woman will not be taken well if she’s not interested. In regards to pursuing a woman, the man…