Define Your Love Goals

Love can be thought of as an ethereal concept. We all have different ideas of what love actually is formed from our experiences with it. Having goals in love allows us to know if we are going in the right direction or not.

People want love, but oftentimes don’t know how to find love or don’t have specific love goals. They end up feeling lost or confused feeling like love is out of reach or hard to grasp.

The chemical high produced during infatuation can lead to a form of addiction known as Romance Addiction. When these Romance Addicts chase love as a feeling, they tend to move from relationship to relationship. Biology helps to bring men and women together, but if our love goal is to have a long term partner in a relationship and we are chasing a feeling rather than searching for the attributes that we want in a long term partner, we will be sorely disappointed.

You will get what you want faster if you identify what it is that you want. If we are chasing love as a feeling, our lives will be subject to instability. The closer that we can identify what it is in love that we desire, the better we can make decisions that support us in arriving closer to our love goal.