Do You Want Information On Love And Relationships That Will Change Your Life?

Sara Knick
2 min readMay 25, 2020

In my blog post called “Do You Know The Pain Of Not Having Love?” I talked about knowing that if I didn’t make my information available for women that many would still never know the beauties of love.

I struggled for several years to understand the world of love and dating. I didn’t have my first boyfriend until I was in my early to mid twenties. I knew that I was a good person, but love was a mystery.

I desired to change the path of my love life. I wanted a lasting relationship, but didn’t have any person to guide me directly to get there. I was dealing with trial and error in regards to relationships. I only had my own ideas of what I thought would work. When things didn’t work out the way I thought they would, I would get anxious… I would isolate myself and try to think of what mistakes that I made. I felt like I was in a dark tunnel and I would never see the light.

When I couldn’t think of what I did, I would reach out into the past with my thoughts and mull over what had led me to this point. It seemed like I had no hopes of reaching my goal in love.

I realized that I had to create a new path for myself somehow even though I didn’t know how.

I focused on my emotions. I did small, simple tasks to elevate my emotions. I would do what I knew would help me feel better. I would take walks, go journalling, go rollerblading, hang out with my dog or do photography.

I felt good doing these things, but I felt that it wasn’t helping me to change the path of my life in love. I started to research and look for people that helped in love… experts, coaches and other well-known people in this area. I read articles on the topic. I read books on the topic. I listened to audios on the topic. I immersed myself in lots of knowledge and advice. The problem was that I immersed myself in so much knowledge and advice that I didn’t know who or what to follow anymore.

I was able to trust myself more and navigate which advice was the right advice and use my intuition to sift out what would work for me or not.

I went from a person who was alone, lost and depressed to a person who became more in tune with herself and more knowledgeable about the world of love and dating. It took me several years, but I got there.

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