Does Your Ex Deserve Another Chance?

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When a relationship ends, the desire for the breakup is often one-sided. Mutual breakups happen, but they’re the exception rather than the rule. Regardless of who ended the relationship, at some point, you or your ex might want to try again.

If you find yourself wanting to get back together with a former love, it might be a good time to do a little soul searching.

Ask yourself these questions before you consider getting back together:

1. Why did the relationship end? There was a reason why things ended. What was it? If you didn’t understand the issue back then, you probably won’t be able to assess whether things have a better chance of working the second time around. Reflect on the old relationship.

2. Has anything changed? If nothing has changed, the outcome will likely be the same. Remember that you can only change yourself.

3. Can you do better? Sometimes, we choose to be with someone rather than be alone. There are many fish in the sea. Avoid settling for someone you are incompatible with and move on.

If you were confident you could find someone else, would this person still interest you?

After you figure out if reconnecting with your ex is a good idea, you have to reach a final decision. If you’re still convinced that you’d…