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Don’t Accept The Opinions Of Others As Truth In The Dating World
I’ve been the victim of non-acceptance from several men that I’ve dated. When you can’t connect on an intimate level or the other person just does not agree with your viewpoint, you can feel misunderstood and alone. Everyone has an opinion. A date will have an opinion of you whether it is made known or not. It is just part of the very important decision that each person makes on the selection of a mate.
In love and dating, we desire acceptance, especially from someone that we really desire and are interested in. We may not be accepted how we would like to be by the one we admire. After this point of non-acceptance, we can become depressed or feel overwhelmed with sadness.
We may not ever get the answers that we may want as to why we were not accepted. This could be in terms of a dating situation or a relationship. If you hold onto dating and relationship “failures,” you do not allow yourself to indulge in better opportunities and exploring options that are a better fit for yourself.
Every person has a unique energy as determined by their birth chart. Every person has a viewpoint. You may not agree with the viewpoint that the other person holds. When a viewpoint is vastly different from your own, it will be likely that you are not compatible.