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Getting Beyond Heartbreak
Love is a risky proposition. The risks are significant, but the rewards are even greater.
As hard as it is to heal from a broken heart, getting past your heartbreak makes love possible in the future. The risks are lowered when you’re able to move forward effectively after a failed relationship.
Move beyond your heartbreak and love again:
1. Take the time you need. While the common advice is to get back on the horse and find someone that’s even better, take a break. Until you’ve pulled yourself together, you’re unlikely to make wise choices. It also isn’t fair to the next person that falls for you.
2. Determine why the relationship failed. It would be a shame to repeat your past mistakes. Take this opportunity to reflect and learn from your painful experience. Is there anything you can do to prevent the same result from occurring again in the future? Many relationship challenges fall into one of the following categories:
Choosing the wrong type of person for you
Communication issues
Personal issues that require resolution
Poor relationship skills
A lack of time
3. Cease all contact. If you have children with your ex, this won’t apply. However, in most cases, it’s best to…
