Getting Catfished & Ghosted?

Here’s what happened when I got catfished and ghosted by a guy I had been talking to…

I did briefly mention this in my first blog post when I posted my Love Manifestation story, but I wanted to tell you more of that story here…

I was totally knocked down. I felt a total breakdown of myself.

I had put my hopes into a guy that I really liked.

He was in real estate and I was sure that if we could both be together we could make it because he was already super successful. He was very flirty with me and I knew that he liked me already because we texted often. There was hope. For fun, I grabbed one of his pictures from his profile and used cute emojis on it like hearts and stars and cute sayings then sent it to him to let him know I was thinking about him.

After a week or two… I noticed something odd.

I started noticing the comments on his profile pictures that he was uploading.

They were comments being posted by different gorgeous women. All of these women were making very flirtatious comments towards him about his looks. He looked buff in his pictures.. it looked like he would go to the gym every day. One of the comments from the women said he was fake and another one asked where he was.

I’m wondering where in the heck all of these women came from and how this guy was keeping up with them or at least some of them.

I still texted him and tried to feel out the situation. Did these women have something against him? Was he even real?

When I asked to talk to him on the phone or meet up, he was resistant.

It was always excuse… after excuse… after excuse… after excuse…

Why is this guy not wanting to meet me? What’s his problem?

I spent time being told that we would be together forever and that he loved me and that he was going to help me do this or that…

In the end, I never was able to hear his voice and I never met up with him.

That’s not love. Love is a give and take relationship. He took more energy from me than I should have ever given.

I didn’t give up on love, but knew that this wasn’t it. I still had love to give, but this was just a lesson that I had to learn.