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Getting More From Your Personal Relationships
Relationships are important. They give us the support we need when we’re down. They provide others we can laugh with. In times of grief or illness, we have people to lean on. Relationships can often be a source of tremendous blessing if you’re willing to give of yourself for the relationship.
Focus on the People You Care About
Focus on those you love and care about. When others see that you’re interested in them and what they have going on in their lives, they’ll open up and be more caring to you, in most cases. That establishes a good, strong friendship.
When you focus on someone else, participate in some of the things that they enjoy. Take an interest in their activities and career. When you do, you’ll begin to see things from their perspective and enjoy a deeper, more meaningful friendship.
Get Close to the People Who Matter
Getting closer means different things to different people. Some people move to be closer to family, for example. Others live far away but use the phone and internet to stay close and in touch. They tell each other they care and remain close in spirit and heart even when they’re far apart. Relationships take effort, but the rewards are well worth it.
