Have You Found The Love Of Your Life?

Some people haven’t found the love of their loves. Some people don’t care. Some people are still searching. Some people realize that they have found the love of their lives and won’t let him or her go. Some people have made themselves the love of their own lives, but feel that something is still missing.

Everyone wants a good future for themselves, but they may not have the experience, skill or understanding needed to really secure it and know it in their heart. When we look at someone who goes through life with very fixed beliefs of how things should be (someone who is stubborn), there seems to be little room for new opportunity or possibility to arise, which in turn restricts connection. It may feel like things should be going well, but deep inside, there is a lack of harmony present with the rigidity overcoming his or her life. This does not allow natural connections to form.

If you haven’t found the love of your life and if you are searching for him or her, your beliefs and routines may be restricting you. This may feel like whatever you do, you cannot move forward and you forfeit a connection with someone. People who continually seek control over situations and are naturally stubborn want to guarantee an outcome, but that outcome hasn’t come yet, which leaves you frustrated, depressed and ashamed. The ego can keep us separated from the one meant for us.

Allowing people to enter your life and learning from them is healthy. Realize that there are people who have natural abilities, skills, expertise and experience that can be learned from. Learn to see people as teachers, not competition. This can take form in a relationship as well.

Seek to learn the history of a potential partner. Listen to the stories that he or she can share. Learn the wisdom present in whatever form that may take. If the energy doesn’t seem right in proceeding forward with a partnership, you will still have the lessons and wisdom that was given to you as well as the lessons in love. It may save you later on down the road from more heartache.

The energy of a person may not be right for you. The way someone goes about their life may totally repel you. We are all born in with a birth chart, which is also called a natal chart. The energy we may feel from someone may just be too intense, harsh, chaotic, slow or fast for us.

Every individual is unique. Each individual has a different history as well as different skills, education and experience. There are a lot of possibilities in love. It just depends on what we prefer.

Learning to understand and to listen to our potential partner in the dating world is a big lesson. To do it well requires patience. If we want to have a good partner, we need to be a good partner ourselves. Finding the love of our life starts with understanding that it is a process. To find that person and allow him or her to reveal himself or herself to us requires awareness and observation. Remember that in love, there is more than what meets the eye.