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How Do You Connect With Your Authenticity?

Sara Knick
3 min readNov 25, 2020

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To be able to attract an amazing partner, you must be the best possible version of yourself. Like attracts like. Here’s one simple question you can ask yourself: Would you date yourself? Authenticity is originality. Whatever qualities that you possess naturally are yours. What are your best assets and qualities in the dating world?

In a sea full of phones, computers and technology, people value authenticity more than ever, but technology is getting in the way of great relationships and connections. It is easier to use technology and the online world to catfish others or create less authentic versions of ourselves online. Being on the receiving end of an inauthentic connection makes us feel cheated, used and frustrated.

Because of several different apps and websites that were created to meet people and that were created for online dating, we can only understand the online personas of people that are put out. We can hope that they are genuine and do our best to become detectives to rule out any inauthenticity or fakeness, but we can still fall prey to tricks. Examples are inaccurate profile descriptions and inaccurate photographic representations.

Connecting with your authenticity is the best way to rule out inauthenticity. You will not connect with inauthenticity if you are your best self day in and day out. An authentic…

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Sara Knick
Sara Knick

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