How Having Relationship Goals Creates Partner Unification

Everyone has a different idea about what love is or what a relationship is. When you break it down, love and relationships can seem simple on paper, but be very difficult to master in real life. Sometimes you can’t agree on something. Your partner also may have his or her quirks. Love should be simple, but many people haven’t learned to master themselves so it makes mastering a relationship twice as hard.

People want happiness, but the actions taken to reach happiness can seem misguided and not actually satisfy the soul. If a relationship’s goals do not seem worthwhile in the end, there is no point in putting in the energy and effort to get there. If there are no relationship goals in general, you will end up feeling confused and frustrated about where your life is going.

You and your partner may not see eye to eye on certain topics or matters. If the reasoning behind a goal does not seem to make sense, you have the right to question it. If something is a deal breaker or there isn’t goal alignment, you have the right to part ways. There was a time when I was dating a guy and his reasoning behind having children did not make sense to me. He wanted to have children so that they would take care of him when he got older. He had his own health concerns that he was worried about. I found many flaws within this logic and chose…