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How To Date Outside Your Type
Learning how to date outside your type can open up new possibilities and help you find the love you’ve been looking for.
Try these ways to get motivated, meet new people and date outside the box.
Getting Motivated to Date Outside Your Type:
1. Evaluate your current dating patterns.
If you want something different than your past relationships, change your thinking and develop new habits. Review the positive and negative aspects of your past love life so you can plan the future you want.
2. Establish priorities for what you’re looking for in a romantic relationship.
Clarify your core values and aspirations to get a better idea of what really matters to you. Keep in mind that dating outside your type does not mean you have to sacrifice your beliefs or values.
3. Shorten your checklist.
Even if your standards are sensible, it’s practical to keep your checklist for a prospective mate as short as possible. You’ll give yourself more options to choose from and avoid missing out on opportunities that might enrich your life.