How To Embrace Your Sexy

Love and lust are different. I’ve talked about this in previous blog posts. We can be unsure of ourselves or uncertain about love when we haven’t had enough positive experiences to make us feel desired or worthy of it. We may not feel sexy if someone continually points out our flaws or tears us down.

People want to feel desired, but they may not feel that way if they observe others getting more attention than themselves or if they have been dealing with self confidence issues all of their lives. You may feel worthless or unworthy of love if you’re not getting the attention that you desire or you feel unsatisfied with parts of yourself.

If you’re not exploring your own desires in your life or how you feel that you desire yourself, you will not attract desire from others. Feeling and engaging in the energy of undesirability will prevent others from approaching you. Fixating on how you’re not sexy or desirable will keep a block there not allowing you to further explore yourself, your sexuality or your exploration with others.

Sexiness and desirability go hand in hand. If we’ve suffered traumas, sexual abuse, verbal abuse or negative experiences in love, we may be impacted on how desirable we ultimately feel in the present. Embracing your full sexy comes with knowing you have full control of your sexual destiny. You can use exploration and make your own…