How To Socialize As A Couple

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In transitioning from the single world to the couple’s world, you’ll notice plenty of changes in how you socialize.

As a single person, you developed a strong sense of independence. You socialized at times that were convenient for you. You could be as spontaneous as you wanted about when, where and with whom you socialized.

However, once you’re half of a couple, it’s necessary to communicate before you go out. After all, two people’s needs must be considered. And what about the act of socializing once you get there? Do you behave as an individual or encourage your partner to join the conversation?

These guidelines will answer your questions and help you navigate the world of socializing as a couple:

1. Choosing who you socialize with is now a joint decision. Being considerate of your partner’s wishes when you make plans is integral to a healthy, happy relationship. You might love your friend, Sue, and her husband, Dave ̧ but your partner may not prefer to see them every Friday night.

Once you’re a part of a couple, decide together the activities you want to do.

2. Plans for socializing may require discussion and advance planning. The two of you will probably find it necessary to plan for when you want to go out. You’ve now likely got two work schedules to consider as…