Ladies, Constant Contact Is NOT The Answer!

There are pros and cons to having great technology these days. In the dating world, the problem with instant communication technology is that it is very easy to fall into a pattern of wanting to contact the person you are dating more frequently than you otherwise might do.

The temptation to send text messages or emails or instant messages over the internet simply to reach out and connect with this person can be overwhelming.

When you don’t receive an instant reply, it is also tempting to start worrying that something is wrong or that maybe he has changed his mind about you.

When you’re in a casual dating situation, always remember that your partner is still developing feelings and figuring out whether or not he wants to lose his
independent lifestyle.

The more you pressure him for contact, the more likely it will be that he will feel pressured or suffocated and he may just decide that single life is more attractive.

However, if you keep communication light and fun between you during this phase, he will understand that you are happy for him to still have his own interests and most men will happily begin to include you in more of his life because of it.