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The Authentic Path To Dating
It takes courage to be authentic while dating. You will sometimes get rejected for being yourself. However, you may miss out on genuine love unless you’re willing to take that risk.
You probably realize that it’s inauthentic to pretend you’re an astronaut when you’re not even sure what NASA stands for. However, there are subtler ways to be false to yourself and your date.
Do you want to take off your mask and connect on a deeper level? Try these tips for being authentic while dating online and off.
Almost 84% of singles want more authenticity in dating according to a survey by the dating app, Plenty of Fish. The internet does make it easy to embellish. However, sticking to the truth is essential if you want a healthy relationship.
Try these techniques to be true to yourself and your date:
1. Turn off filters. It’s natural to choose flattering photos of yourself for your profile, but they need to be recognizable. Your date may feel deceived if you change your eye color and remove too many wrinkles.
2. Use your words. Potential partners will usually learn more about each other from verbal descriptions rather than photos. Include stories that showcase your personality. Describe what you’re looking for in a relationship.