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Top 10 Ways To Move On In Your Love Life
You’ve been in your relationship for quite some time. Things have changed recently and you’re beginning to doubt that it’s going to last much longer. You’re not even sure how you got to this point! What happened?
Warning Signs
There are many warning signs that a relationship is breaking down. Think back over the last few months and you may recognize some of these signs:
• Unnecessary criticism. Your partner blames you or attacks your character.
• Contempt. Nearly everything your partner says is a complaint or an insult.
• Avoidance. Your partner has begun ignoring or avoiding you.
• Being defensive. You don’t listen to what your partner says for fear of being hurt or them lashing out at you again.
Two or more of these warning signs could signal that it’s time to move on, but how do you do that?
Moving On
First, realize that the end of any relationship is similar to dealing with a loss of a loved one. You may go through the grieving process: denial, anger, ambivalence, depression and recovery. This is normal and to be expected.
Give yourself some time to grieve and you’ll come out a stronger person on the other side.
