Topics To Talk About In Your Current Relationship
There are a lot of love articles out there about what to do and what not to do to get a woman or to get a man. What if you already have that man or woman and just want to know what you can do to deepen that connection already? I have a great connection with my fiancé and there are other great connections out there as well.
When people are bored, they want to feel excited and alive again. If you’ve already been through the early stages of love, it may be a bit more difficult to find excitement and that feeling of being alive because you’ve already found that person you want to spend your time with and your life with. You may feel stagnation or a lack of moving forward and question… is this relationship worth it?
When there is a lack of reciprocity in the relationship or shortcomings in reaching relationship goals, we may question if we picked the right partner to be with. We may question the relationship itself if something doesn’t go as planned.
Having a love connection is half the battle in love. Once you find that person that you’d like to support, spend your time with and build a life with, it is important to recognize that maintenance is required. Maybe there are personal challenges being faced and the couple doesn’t know how to deal with them. Maybe the couple needs to reassess their needs, functionality and what they are ultimately working towards. The love journey in life will have unexpected obstacles, triumphs, lessons and surprises. Because people can change, the couple can change.
The LovePanky website had an amazing article giving 25 different topics to use in conversations in a relationship. Sometimes certain topics need to be revisited. Sometimes it helps to delve into the emotions surrounding certain topics. Conversations and communication help to establish the couple being on the same page. You can learn something new about your partner, which in itself is exciting!
We may not always agree with the viewpoints that our partner has. It is important to recognize that there are two separate individuals and each has different experiences, skills, education and history forming the union of two people in the relationship. There will be disagreements.
Allowing a relationship to change as needed and not putting unrealistic expectations on our partner is healthy. Allowing disagreements to happen is healthy. Fights and extreme chaos occur when each person is holding onto their ego and is trying to maintain the position to be right. Happiness and the functionality of an authentic connection are great relationship goals to have in mind.
In discussing topics, we will find out new or changing opinions and perspectives that our partner has. We may not have even realized there were changes over the years! Having a happy and healthy relationship is comprised of two happy and healthy individuals that want to continue improving their lives.
