What Can Be Done So That Jealousy And Insecurity Do Not Cause Someone To Lose Their Relationship?

The above question had popped up on my feed in Quora. I thought how interesting this question was worded, but wanted to break it down. There are other questions that come to mind when reading it. Where is the jealousy coming from? What is causing the insecurity? Is the relationship worth saving?

A lot of people don’t want to lose their relationship, but if the relationship is not providing the kind of value that you desire in your life, maybe it is time to consider moving on. If you are experiencing jealousy and insecurity, there are parts of you that do not feel complete or whole.

If your partner is making you feel jealous or insecure, the relationship is not worth saving at that point. If he or she is doing things to undermine the relationship, you will ultimately be on the negative receiving end of it.

You cannot lose a relationship if it is already malfunctioning or “lost.” If there is not continual effort and energy to strengthen the relationship and you feel as if you are doing all the work to keep it together, you really do not have a healthy relationship.

There needs to be some internal reflection on what is causing the jealousy as well as the insecurity. If your partner is doing something to…