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What To Look For In A Soulmate

Sara Knick
4 min readJun 9, 2021

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How do you know when you’ve found your soulmate?

Some people will tell you that they “just know,” while others can identify several characteristics and reasons why they seem to perfectly mesh with their relationship counterpart.

For those who haven’t found a soulmate yet, there are things we can be looking for to speed up the process. There are always going to be things we like and dislike about others, but the true test is deciding whether or not we can lovingly accept the negative attributes.

Sometimes we care about someone very much, but discover that there is some factor that we simply cannot accept for one reason or another.

Here are some factors to think about when looking for a soul mate:

1. Morals & Beliefs. Everyone comes with their own set of morals and beliefs. We all know that we should be open, honest and accepting of others. Oftentimes when our core beliefs differ, it’s hard to have a lasting relationship. This is why you’ll want to have deep discussions about faith, morals and beliefs with potential partners. If someone isn’t a fit at this deep of a level, you should seriously consider whether the relationship is even worth getting serious about.

2. Communication. You’ll hear over and over that communication is the key. There are different ways of…

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Sara Knick
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