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What Will You Do When Your Partner Says They Need Space?

3 min readMar 18, 2021
Photo by Isi Parente on Unsplash.

Maintaining space in a relationship is a delicate balancing act. Too little privacy can make you feel smothered while too much can make you forget what your significant other looks like. On the one hand, you probably realize that personal space is a reasonable request, but that may not stop you from feeling threatened if your partner asks for it.

If you’re pondering what to do when your partner says they need their space, take a look at these suggestions. They’ll help you develop a relationship that’s close and comfortable.

What To Do After Your Partner Says They Need Space:

Maybe you hit it off on your first date and you forgot to pace yourself. If you’re already having that conversation, you may be able to end your relationship gracefully or take it to another level.

1. Stay calm. It’s natural for relationship troubles to trigger doubts and fears. Remember that you’ve handled conflicts in the past and you can figure out how to respond to this one.

2. Listen closely. Show your partner you care by giving them your full attention. Focus on what they’re saying instead of thinking about your next response. Reserve judgment and try to take in verbal and nonverbal messages.

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Sara Knick
Sara Knick

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