When A Relationship Is Not Going Anywhere…
I am of the mindset that you can never stop learning and improving yourself. There is always something to learn if you have not reached a goal or have mastered parts of yourself. I’ve used self-reflection, self-development and adopting positive daily habits that get me closer to where I want to be.
People want certainty and positive outcomes in their lives, but if they have never reached certain outcomes before, they are likely to never get where they want to be without the right information and strategies. Feeling like you are farther than you want to be in trying to master areas of your life or a goal can be soul-crushing.
We are the ones that decide our fate in love. There is no one that can do it for us. You may have always wanted to enter a relationship and haven’t even a clue how to do it right. You may already be in a relationship with your partner and find it to be lacking satisfaction or find yourself fighting constantly. We may be struggling with ourselves and it contributes to a lack of harmony in the relationship as a whole.
People can change over time in a relationship. You have two different energies dealing with each other. It may feel like the relationship is going nowhere, but the right kind of change is possible with the right tools and information. It needs to be identified where we want to be going or exactly what we want changed.
You need to find the right mentor, coach, professional or expert to get you where you want to be. The right person is going to provide you the right informations, strategies and tools as well as provide value to you. In working with the person that you choose, you should feel inspired and pushed to do better. Find the right person that connects with your soul and gives you momentum so that you can spark a great change in your life.
Not everyone is created equal. You shouldn’t have to question if you are being helped or not just because someone has a certain title. Some just won’t know how to help your specific situation and some will. Some may be in it for the money and others will want to genuinely create long lasting changes in your life. Part of the battle is finding the right information, tools and people to help spark change in your love life.
Sometimes you will know what to do to make the changes that you need to make personally and that in turn affects a relationship as a whole positively. Sometimes you may implement certain strategies that you have read about and that helps create more quality experiences with your partner. There may be other times when you may not know exactly what to do and be caught in a crazy situation where the decision is not always easy and you have to also look at patterns in your life… perhaps you got cheated on again and you can’t take it anymore and need help to understand why you attract unfaithful partners. There are multiple individual scenarios. There are people that have the right information and tools to help, it is just about finding them. There are also people that have been in the same situations that have overcome the issues and problems that people still face today. It is about overcoming and making changes.
You can never reach a certain and positive outcome in a relationship with someone that is choosing to be dishonest with you. Maybe certain aspects of who someone really is is revealing itself more and more and you are not with the person that you had thought you were with. True change can only be made if someone sees a true reason for it. You cannot force true change onto someone. If you feel that even with finding the right help and implementing change that things are not working out, look at and consider all of your options. Life was meant to be enjoyed. We have countless options and possibilities around us.
