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When You Meet Someone, What Is That Initial Spark?!

3 min readNov 11, 2020

It is difficult to really describe into words what an initial spark is in a dating scenario that may have even developed into a relationship. A time that you had meeting someone may have been super exciting and you don’t want it to end! It could be the location, how good someone looked when you met him or her or even what you were doing that felt very lively and intense.

People want to feel like they are alive and living well with love, but we all deal with struggles and challenges along the way. We may get down on ourselves because we don’t have a relationship like someone else’s and feel burdened over what we may or may not have.

If we’re single and searching for someone, we may be so intent on finding someone exciting or something exciting just to ease the numbing feeling of loneliness that we latch onto it without considering our long term future.

When we have a new experience with a new person, we feel new feelings associated with that. If we allow ourselves to let our emotions lead ahead of us, our rational side may miss the reality and facts sitting right in front of us. It is awesome to have felt an initial spark with someone that you like, but where do you want to take it?

There’s certain interests that may spark our excitement on a personal level. If we look at this same…

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Sara Knick
Sara Knick

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