Why Celebrations & Good Moments Are Important
Sometimes when we look back on our lives, we remember the struggles, the times that we were defeated and our failures. This can get us down and block the times that we triumphed if we are focusing on the negative events that happened in our lives. If we are living the human life, we will experience negativities inevitably. We must learn how to manage these times and put it into perspective clearly.
People want to win in life, but there will be times when you have struggles, losses or failures. Having continued struggles, losses or failures can make us question our identity and path in life as well as leave us emotionally crippled.
If we allow ourselves to remain stuck mentally in the times that we struggled, had losses or had failures, we let that energy stay with us and become part of us. If we get stuck energetically in the patterns of energy that we were stuck in before, it becomes a cycle.
Celebrating the triumphs or victories in your relationship is crucial to continuing the flow of good energy in it. Creating good memories by having special plans and setting aside quality time that you and your partner share helps the integrity of the relationship.
Celebrate your anniversary. Visit special locations that have meaning for you and your partner. Create new memories by visiting new places around you. Do something special that you know your partner will like out of the blue.
Emotions of sadness may interfere for what has been lost in the past. Perhaps there is a longing for past times or places, but the person cannot accept having to move forward. The loss could be in the form of a traumatic event in which there was loss, a job loss, a home loss, a loss of people, a loss of good health or some other sort of loss.
When we celebrate our relationship and appreciate what we have as well as take action to accomplish our dreams with our partner, we can’t go wrong. Having dreams and goals in the relationship that we agree on with our partner lets us know where we are going. Allowing ourselves to elevate our energy and be happy on life’s journey instills an overall sense of triumph and victory. We will encounter difficult times, but when we continue to infuse our lives with happiness, we are telling ourselves as well as other people that we can overcome.
Looking at the life lessons that accompanied a struggle, loss or failure keeps us moving forward and reaching for happiness. Sometimes we have to adjust our perspective. If we just won at life all of the time or if life got easier, we wouldn’t develop ourselves and life would be boring. Sharing life with our partner can help us in knowing that we have support in times that we are struggling. We always have something to live for. It just takes some thought and understanding to know where we want our life to head next.
