Why Love Coaching Is Part Of My Passion And Purpose

Over the years, I have developed a lot of intuition, experience and skills in dealing with people. Growing up, I had retail jobs where I got to see the best and the worst sides of people. I also worked in management where I had to deal with many situations relating to conflict resolution. As part of my massage therapy certification, I chose to learn about energy healing. Around 2012, I chose to take more energy healing and psychic development classes. These classes helped me to get in touch with energy itself. Being able to recognize energy in its pure form is essential to life.

I have learned that a lot of people want love, but a lot of people fail in achieving it. The failure of creating a successful love life can get a person down emotionally, crush that person’s self esteem and make life not worth living.

When someone can’t find his or her way to success in love, it is devastating. I mentioned awhile back in a blog post that there was a study that says that even the pursuit of love can bring happiness to an individual. Without having a satisfying love, life can be difficult and more isolating.

There are many intricate problems and situations that can come up in love. Love is not a one size fits all situation. When we grow up, our lives develop and change. Our needs and wants may change. The other person may change.

I like to identify what it is that the individual is trying to achieve in a love situation and then first assess what is actually going on. What is the person’s relationship status? What is it that is being left unfulfilled? Assessing the situation and getting down to the emotions and feelings attached to the current situation helps me to figure out what needs to be done next. Sometimes it is a perspective shift. Other times a perspective shift won’t do it and action needs to be taken to really get a person winning in a love situation. I will advise the actions that need to be taken to empower the individual again in their love situation.

One thing that some people fail to recognize is that you cannot spark change in the other person in love unless that person truly sees a need to change or wants to change. You can show all the love that you want to someone, but the other person may still respond the same and not want to receive love.

Relationships take some figuring out and some work to get them running smoothly. There are a lot of different facets to ourselves. There are also a lot of different facets to relationship success. Gaining clarity on our identity in an authentic way is the first step to that.

I am a very curious person. I like to troubleshoot and fix problems. Love is ever changing. Love is a journey. We discover new aspects of ourselves along the way. We may also encounter unexpected problems. I like helping men and women find what it is that they want and gain clarity on that in order to create successful relationships. Love scenarios can change, but my purpose remains the same. That purpose is to help people gain confidence, clarity and control of their love lives.